Is there a memory of failure within you that causes you to believe that, no matter how much you achieve, something will happen to bring you down? Despite all that you have, do you still need more to satisfy your craving for security?
Each of us chose our particular human embodiment to learn certain lessons in this lifetime. We hold within and have available to us the experiences of those who came before us. Past, present, and future are very linear concepts that, given the right environment and conditions, can be experienced and understood in the present moment.
Our minds, on some level, contain all of the memories of all that ever was. These thoughts may be influencing us in ways in which we are unaware. They may be preventing us from acknowledging our havingness.
Many of the obstacles blocking an awareness of our havingness are in our subconscious. One example of a psychic obstacle is an ancestral memory or agreement made prior to birth or conception and usually forgotten. A pre-birth agreement is the decision by a group of energetic beings to be physically born as family or friends, for example, to assist each other during a lifetime and to grow as a group. A ready-made spiritual support system was thereby established. Unfortunately, members of the group may subsequently grow at different rates or move along different paths.
This pre-embodiment energetic agreement can cause some group members to sacrifice their own potential progressions in life and adhere to the level of advancement of the group. Those members can’t seem to pull away from a family’s destructive or non-productive environment. Developing a physical distance may not be possible or desirable. A solution may be to identify and break free of the ancestral agreement.